Magical Weddings

Diary of a Wedding Magician

Well this weekend was lots of fun with three very different weddings to entertain at

Although The format of weddings are pretty similar the feel of most weddings is very different

This can relate to Number of guests,Venue,Age of guests,if children are present and also the thing that is the hardest to relate to is the type of people

I love being asked to entertain at weddings and I often joke that for a bloke I know far to much about them

With a simple calculation I have probably entertained at 800-875 over the last 23 years

I cant say that any two were the same!!!!

• This weekend saw me entertain at a really large wedding in Cheshire where I entertained through drinks reception and the wedding breakfastAs I knew a lot of the guests there was a really personal feel
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• In the evening I entertained at a reception in Warrington where I was asked to mix and mingle in the bar performing close up magic.This was an evening of fun and banter with a lot of the guests that had been at the wedding all day
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• The third wedding of the weekend was an intimate wedding with about 50 guests in a country house hotel near Sheffield where I looked after guests through drinks reception and through the meal

As you can appreciate I had the chance to spend a lot more time with guests at the third wedding as it had about a third of the guests.Three weddings all awesome but all three very different.

I was so pleased to get an e mail from the Bride and Groom from the third wedding yesterday saying the following

A very good afternoon from the Easons! Carl we wanted to say an absolutely massive thank you for yesterday you are so so talented, read the crowd brilliantly and entertained our guests perfectly! The faces of shock surprise and laughter on our guests was literally magic! We cannot recommend you enough and have had so many compliments to pass on to you. Thank you , love Mr and Mrs Eason x x x 🃏♠♣♥💝

 The most pleasing part of this as positive feedback (and a great testimonial) is that the bride felt that I read the room and her guests to maximise the effect of my wedding magic.

She understood that there was a mix of personalities and age groups and I tried to maximise the magical effects by not just producing a homogeneous set for each group of people

The bride and groom were pleased because of their guests reactions which I think speaks volumes for the approach of any wedding magician

Last year I produced a couple of video blogs one of which was on wedding magic I will put this below



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Carl Royle
www.magicbycarl.co.uk

Making The Magic Memorable

Why should they remember you?

There is an old saying in magic that "people do not remember what you do they remember how you make them feel"

So how do people want to feel when they watch magic?

If I was to brainstorm this question you will get a list something like the one below (or we did!!!)

• Engaged
• Amused
• Entertained
• Astonished
• Surprised
• Comfortable
• Included (without being picked on)
• Relaxed
• Happy
• Special

This list is not in any order but if you leave any audience member feeling just half of the above they are definitely going to remember you for a long time.

My first observation of the above is that most of the list is not necessarily related to magic at all.The fact is most magic is not about the effect or the trick being performed.

Yes it is really important that any magician performs amazing magic but what makes individual magicians stand out is the way they interact with their audience.

"How they make them feel"

If people have seen me perform you will know there is a section of my close up act where I use the word awesome a lot.I get the audience to repeat the word awesome and at the end of the effect I can almost guarantee someone will say "that was awesome"

This is because by the time I get to this effect everyone feels Engaged,amused,entertained,comfortable,included and I hope special

I sort of hope they are astonished as well but I am sure you get the message

On many occasions I have met people who have seen me perform at another time and they always remember the Awesome thing!!!!! 

As I have touched on in previous blogs it is so important to listen as you perform so you can respond and make an audience feel included instead of feeling they are being performed at.

Next time you are interacting with people whether you have met them before or not consider how you made them feel and how or if they will remember you in the future

This goes for Magic and none magic interaction

Comments and questions welcome

Carl Royle

www.magicbycarl.co.uk

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